Clear, Structured, Cost-Conscious Divorce Mediation
If you are searching for divorce mediation in DuPage County or the surrounding Illinois area, things may feel unsettled right now.
You may be hearing “we need to separate” or “you have to move out,” while trying to hold your life together. There may be fear about losing time with your child, concern about finances, and a growing sense that things cannot continue the way they have been.
Divorce mediation offers a private, structured way to move forward without going to court, helping you make clear, informed decisions about your children, your finances, and your next steps.
You do not have to figure this out on your own.
We provide divorce mediation services for families throughout DuPage County, including Wheaton, Naperville, Glen Ellyn, and surrounding communities.
Wondering how to start? Schedule an Introductory Call to talk through your next step.
Quick Links
- - What Happens
- - Why Choose Us
- - Is Mediation the Right Fit
- - Our Mediation Framework
- - What We Mediate & PDF
- - Cost of Mediation
- - FAQ
- - Next Steps
What Happens in Divorce Mediation?
Start with a Planning Session
We meet to understand your situation, your goals, whether mediation is the right fit, and to prepare a roadmap.
Parenting Discussions (Typically 2–3 Sessions)
We work through schedules, decision-making, and what your children need moving forward.
Financial Discussions (Typically 2–3 Sessions)
We review assets, support, and financial arrangements in a structured way.
Additional Sessions if Needed
Some families need more time. Sessions are added only as needed.
Court-Ready Documents
Once agreements are reached, all court-ready documents are prepared.
Why Clients Choose Birt Family Law for Mediation
Led by attorney and mediator Erin Birt, JD, CADC, our practice serves clients in DuPage County, including Wheaton, Glen Ellyn, and Naperville, as well families throughout Illinois by Zoom.
Mediation is often the right fit for parents who want to reduce conflict, stay organized, and move forward without unnecessary court involvement.
Parents choose Birt Family Law for divorce mediation because we offer:
- - Over 20 years of experience in Illinois family law
- - A Certified Mediate.com Mediator
- - Flat-fee and Expedited Mediation Packages
- - In-house co-parenting tools and legal insight
- - Private, structured sessions available online or in person
- - Supportive but firm guidance that keeps momentum moving
- - Option for post-mediation coaching or legal referral if needed
“Mediation is a calm, structured way forward. Most of our clients complete their process within 90 days—with flat fees, clear guidance, and no court battles.” - Erin Birt
Not sure how to invite your co-parent or family to mediation? We provide practical guidance and sample scripts to make this step easier.
Meet Your Mediator
Erin Birt, JD, CADC, is a certified family law mediator and attorney with over 20 years of experience guiding families through calm, court-free resolutions.
View Erin's Mediate.com profile here.
Is Divorce Mediation Right for You?
Divorce Mediation works best when:
- - Both parents are open to resolving issues outside of court
- - There is a willingness to participate in a structured process
- - You want to reduce conflict and maintain more control over decisions
- - You are looking for a cost-conscious alternative to litigation
You do not need to agree on everything to begin. Many parents come to mediation because communication has become strained, not because everything is already resolved. Mediation provides the structure that helps discussions move forward more productively.
If you are unsure whether mediation is the right fit, many clients start with a an introductory phone call with our office to determine whether mediation or individual legal support is the right next step.
Our Mediation Framework: Restorative Divorce®
Unlike traditional models, our Restorative Divorce® process is designed to reduce emotional exhaustion while delivering legally sound, forward-focused results. We provide:
- - A 90-day mediation roadmap
- - Tools like pre-session workbooks, guided agendas, children's resources
- - Status updates and structured follow-ups
- - Flat-fee transparency with optional extensions or hourly rates
- - A calm, private environment for sensitive issues
Whether you're starting your journey or seeking support after a court referral, our process is designed to meet you where you are and guide you forward.
Mediation is one of the ways families move through the Restorative Divorce® process. Some parents begin together in mediation. Others begin individually and transition to mediation later.
Learn more about the Restorative Divorce® process and how mediation fits within it.
What Issues Can Be Resolve in Divorce Mediation?
At Birt Family Law, we guide clients through nearly every type of family law issue, offering clarity and structure whether you're beginning a divorce, revisiting parenting terms, or addressing long-standing co-parenting challenges.
Mediation services include:
- - Pre-Marriage Planning and Agreements, Prenuptial and Postnuptial
- - Separation and Divorce, whether married, cohabiting, or unmarried
- - Parenting Agreements and Revisions
- - Property and Debt Division
- - Maintenance and Alimony Discussions
- - Child Support Issues- Parenting Time, custody and visitation
- - Relocation or Child Removal Cases
- - Stepparent and Grandparent Visitation
- - Reconciliation Planning
- - Annual Parenting Plan Reviews
- - Post-Divorce Modifications
Need something to review or share?
Download our Mediation Services Overview flyer a helpful summary you can print or provide to your co-parent, attorney, or support team.
Not sure how to invite your co-parent or family to mediation? We provide practical guidance and sample scripts to make this step easier.
Cost of Divorce Mediation in DuPage County
Mediation costs vary depending on complexity and level of support. Many clients choose structured, flat-fee options designed to keep the process efficient and predictable. View typical mediation and divorce cost ranges in DuPage County.
Our most popular mediation package options include:
Flat-Fee Mediation Package
Ideal for clients who want structure, momentum, and budget clarity. This plan includes full access to our tools, agenda-based sessions, and check-ins. It can be renewed if needed.
Expedited Mediation Package
For families on tight timelines, whether due to court deadlines, upcoming moves, or health/family matters, we offer accelerated resolution support without compromising quality.
Hourly Mediation Services
Available when flexibility is preferred or when the issues are limited in scope. This option is often ideal for shorter check-ins or reviewing draft agreements.
For typical mediation and divorce cost ranges, visit our Divorce Services and Pricing page.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. Do both parents have to agree to mediation?
Mediation works best when both parents are willing to participate, but you can begin the process individually. We can help you determine the most effective way to invite the other parent into mediation.
2. What are the benefits of family mediation?
Family mediation provides a structured, private setting for direct communication. Parents maintain greater control over outcomes and can create tailored, child-centered agreements. Mediation is often faster and more cost-effective than litigation, while supporting stronger long-term cooperation. Flat-fee and hourly options are available for predictable budgeting.
3. Can the mediator represent us in court?
No. As a mediator, Erin provides neutral guidance and does not represent either parent in court or file contested pleadings. However, we prepare court-ready agreements and offer a post-mediation education session to help you file confidently. Referrals to mediation-friendly closing attorneys are available if needed.
4. What does mediation cost?
Mediation services are offered through flat-fee packages or hourly options, depending on the level of support needed. Many cases follow a structured 90-day process, with expedited options available. For typical mediation and divorce cost ranges in DuPage County, please review the Pricing Page before your Planning Session.
5. What happens after mediation is complete?
After mediation is complete, you will have a signed agreement that reflects your decisions. We prepare court-ready documents and offer a post-mediation education session so you understand how to file and finalize your case. If needed, we can refer you to a mediation-friendly closing attorney.
Next Steps: Let's Begin When You're Ready
Mediation works best when both people are ready to reduce conflict, stay out of court, and focus on resolution.
If you're ready to explore that path, we invite you to:
Schedule an Introductory Call
Connect with our team to ask questions and ensure our services are a good fit.
Book a Planning Session with Erin ($200 per person)
Discuss your goals, understand the process, and map out your mediation journey.
View Pricing Before You Schedule
You may also print and share our Mediation Services Overview flyer with your co-parent or legal counsel to help everyone understand the process and options.
