Interested in Divorce Mediation Services?

Interested in Divorce or Parenting Mediation? Start Here.

Considering a calmer path through divorce or parenting challenges? Birt Family Law offers out-of-court mediation services trusted by Illinois families for over 20 years. Whether you're navigating parenting changes or a full divorce, mediation helps reduce conflict, protect children, and keep control of the process in your hands.

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Why Mediate With Us

If both you and the other parent or spouse are open to mediation, you're already one step ahead.

✔️ Avoid court
✔️ Reduce conflict
✔️ Protect your children
✔️ Get clear, experienced guidance

We offer Zoom, Teams, and in-person mediation at our standard hourly rate of $400 ($200 per person) for both formats. Structured flat-fee packages may be offered following a planning session. All sessions are designed for progress—not confusion.

Download our mediation service overview flyer here for more information. 

How to Get Started

1. Book a free 15-minute orientation call
2. Complete easy online intake forms
3. Schedule your planning session & receive your roadmap and estimate
4. Schedule your first mediation session

Start a Mediation Planning Session or an Introductory Callr contact our office and we'll help coordinate with the other party. If you need help inviting your co-parent or family member, check out our practical guidance and sample scripts.

Not sure if mediation is the right fit?

You can also explore services for:
• Uncontested Divorce
• Legal Support
• The Restorative Divorce® Pathway

Frequently Asked Questions Clients Often Ask Before Divorce Mediation

Can we mediate if we don't agree on everything?
Yes—most clients begin the mediation process with disagreements. Mediation isn't about agreeing from the start; it's about creating space for respectful dialogue and practical solutions.

What if the other person is difficult or emotional?
You don't need to have perfect communication to benefit from mediation. With a skilled mediator guiding the process, both parties have the chance to be heard and stay focused on resolution—not conflict.

Is mediation still an option if we've already filed in court?
Yes. You can still choose mediation even if court proceedings have started. In fact, many families find it helpful to pause litigation and resolve matters privately before returning to court to finalize agreements.

How is this different from court-ordered mediation?
Private mediation offers a more flexible and thorough approach than court-ordered mediation. If you're comparing options, you can learn more about Court-Ordered Mediation here.

What if we can't agree on whether to mediate?
Mediation is voluntary, so both parties must agree to participate. If you're unsure how to start that conversation, we can guide you or provide neutral language to help you invite the other person to consider it.

Do I still need a lawyer if we use mediation?
Many parents choose to consult with an attorney before, during, or after mediation. Mediation helps facilitate discussion and agreement, while legal advice helps you understand your rights and options before making important decisions.

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